Dinamika Poligami di Tengah Budaya Oligarkis-Patriarkis (Studi pada Masyarakat Poliwali Mandar dan Konawe Sulawesi)
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https://doi.org/10.24090/mnh.v14i1.3657Keywords:
Poligamy, Culture, Islam, Poliwali Mandar, KonaweAbstract
This article attempts to look at the other side of polygamy in the context of Islamic law amid oligarchic-patriarchal culture. During this time, there are people who think the reality of polygamy as a normal action performed. But there are some state that marriage should be practiced with the true principles of monogamy. Therefore, the article focuses on the wisdom of the polygamy reality experienced by the people of Polewali Mandar district in West Sulawesi and Konawe in Southeast Sulawesi based on normative narratives. The conclusion of this article is the reality of polygamy appears inseparably from the theological and cultural foundation of value-patriarchal oligarchic. Hence, the Quranic verse interpretation greatly influences the thought and practice of marriage in a society. Like the one phrase (fa wÄḥidah) in QS. an-Nisa verse 3 which is interpreted not to prohibit a polygamy but the demand to marry another wife besides the first wife if she is unable to be fair. If a man is able to be fair in the matter of material, then he is permitted to marry at least four women at the same time.Downloads
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Alamgir, Aurangzaib. “Islam and Polygamy: A Case Study in Malaysia.†Procedia: Social and Behavioral Sciences 114, no. 1, 2014: 889–893.
Alean al-Krenawi. “Women of Polygamous Marriages in Primary Health Care Centers.†Contemporary Family Therapy 21, no. 3, 1999: 417–430.
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Dissa, Yaya. “Polygamy in Mali: Social and Economic Implications on Families.†International Journal of African and Asian Studies 27, no. 1, 2016: 94–107.
Ertan Yilmaz & Lut Tamam. “The Relationship Between Polygamy and Psychiatric Disorder in Turkish Women,.†International Journal of Social Psychiatry 64, no. 8, 2018: 821–827.
Fatimah Zuhrah. “Problematika Hukum Poligami Di Indonesia: Analisis Terhadap UU No. 1 Tahun 1974 Dan KHI.†Al-Usrah: Jurnal Al-Ahwal as-Syakhsiyah 5, no. 1, 2017: 27–41.
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Haris Hidayatulloh. “Adil Dalam Poligami Perspektif Ibnu Hazm.†Religi: Jurnal Studi Islam 6, no. 2, 2015: 207–236.
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Khadijah Tukur Batagarawa & Atiku Garba Yahaya. “Counting Blessings with Cautions: Wisdom and Vitality of Polygamy in Islam.†IOSR: Journal of Humanities and Social Science 23, no. 9, 2018: 47–53.
Mahridha. “Poligami Dalam Kajian Hukum Islam: Studi Analisis Pandangan Hasbi Ash-Shiddiegy.†Jurisprudensi: Jurnal Ilmu Syari’ah, Perundang-Undangan Dan Ekonomi Islam 9, no. 2, 2017: 50–78.
Makrum. “Poligami Dalam Perspektif Al-Qur’an.†Maghza: Jurnal Ilmu Al-Qur’an Dan Tafsir 1, no. 2, 2016: 35–50.
Marzuki. “Poligami Dalam Hukum Islam.†Jurnal Civics: Media Kajian Kewarganegaraan 2, no. 2, 2005: 1–10.
Masiyan M. Syam & Muhammad Syachrofi. “Hadis-Hadis Poligami: Aplikasi Metode Pemahaman Hadis Muhammad Al-Ghazali.†Diroyah: Jurnal Ilmu Hadis 4, no. 1, 2019: 89–98.
Moqsith, Abd. “Tafsir Atas Poligami Dalam Al-Qur’an.†Karsa: Journal of Social and Islamic Culture 23, no. 1, 2015: 133–149.
Muhammad Arif Mustofa. “Poligami Dalam Hukum Agama Dan Negara.†Al-Imarah: Jurnal Pemerintahan Dan Politik Islam 2, no. 1, 2005: 47–58.
Muhammad Mualimur Rifqi, and et.al. “Keadilan Dalam Poligami Perspektif Madzab Syafi’i.†Hikmatina: Jurnal Ilmiah Hukum Keluarga Islam 1, no. 2, 2019: 86–92.
Mukri, Moh. “Poligami: Antara Teks Dan Konteks Sosial.†Al-’Adalah 14, no. 1, 2017: 201–224.
Nur Aisah Simamora. “Menguji Keberterimaan Pemikiran Tentang ‘Monogami Sebagai Syarat Tak Tertulis Saat Pernikahan Berlangsung’ Menurut Para Ahli Hukum Islam Di Sumatera Utara.†Jurnal Penelitian Medan Agama 10, no. 1, 2019: 115–139.
Nurmila, Nina. Women, Islam and Everyday Life: Renegotiating Polygamy in Indonesia. London: Routledge, 2009.
Rarasrum Dyah Kasitowati. “Sandeq Dan Roppo: Kearifan Lokal Suku Mandar Pesisir, Sulawesi Barat.†Sabda: Jurnal Kajian Kebudayaan 6, no. 1, 2011: 63–68.
Rike Luluk Khoiriah. “Poligami Nabi Muhmmad Menjadi Alasan Legitimasi Bagi Umatnya Serta Tanggapannya Kaum Orientalis.†Jurnal Living Hadis 3, no. 1, 2018: 1–21.
Riyandi S. “Syarat Adanya Persetujuan Istri Untuk Berpoligami: Analisis Fikih Syafi’iyyah Terhadap Undang-Undang Perkawinan Nomor 1 Tahun 1974.†Jurnal Ilmiah Islam Futura 15, no. 1, 2015: 111–142.
Rohmansyah. “Analisa Pendekatan Bahasa Dan Historis Terhadap Poligami Dalam Hadist Nabi.†Kalimah: Jurnal Studi Agama Dan Pemikiran Islam 17, no. 1, 2019: 55–70.
Sa’adah, Nuru, and et.al. “Poligami Dalam Lintas Budaya Dan Agama: Meta-Interpretation Approach.†Asy-Syir’ah: Jurnal Ilmu Syari’ah Dan Hukum 49, no. 2, 2015: 479–99.
Sastri Sunarti. “Kosmologi Laut Dalam Tradisi Lisan Orang Mandar Di Sulawesi Barat.†Aksara 29, no. 1, 2017: 33–48.
Shihab, Quraish. Wawasan Al-Qur’an: Tafsir Maudhu’i Atas Pelbagai Persoalan Umat. Bandung: Mizan, 2004.
Subehan Khalik. “Menakar Teologi Keadilan Dalam Poligami.†Ar-Risalah: Jurnal Ilmu Syariah Dan Hukum 19, no. 1, 2019: 57–66.
Wahid Syarifuddin Ahmad. “Status Poligami Dalam Hukum Islam: Telaah Atas Berbagai Kesalahan Memahami Nas Dan Praktik Poligami.†Al-Ahwal: Jurnal Hukum Keluarga Islam 6, no. 1, 2013: 57–70.
Yufni Faisol. “Konsep Adil Dalam Poligami: Telaah Pemikiran Mushthofa Al-‘Adawi Dalam Tafsir Al-Tashil Lita’Wil Al-Tanzil.†International Journal Ihya’ Ulum Al-Din 18, no. 1, 2016: 25–47.
Zuhrah, Fatimah. “Problems of Polygamy in Indonesia: Analysis of Law No. 1 of 1974 and KHI.†Journal of Islam and Scince 5, no. 1, 2016: 1–17.
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Sadat, A., & Ipandang, I. (2020). Dinamika Poligami di Tengah Budaya Oligarkis-Patriarkis (Studi pada Masyarakat Poliwali Mandar dan Konawe Sulawesi). Al-Manahij: Jurnal Kajian Hukum Islam, 14(1), 131–146. https://doi.org/10.24090/mnh.v14i1.3657
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